me vs them.

it's hard to figure out when exactly you lose yourself.
sometimes the realization comes quickly when you're driving down a highway or on the couch watching tv.
it can hit you like a ton of bricks and send your mind spinning out of control.
or it can slowly creep up on you and you only notice you weren't you, when you became you again.

losing you is a gradual process.
one too many compromises, one too many times you gave in.
even being determined not to lose you is no guarantee of keeping you.

oh what's that?

you just got gas for the first time in over a month?
that's because you insisted on taking my car, ass.

good thing you have no spawn.
fuck you.

it's been a while.

it's been a while for a lot of things.

just now i deleted the music i downloaded when we first met.
i don't listen to it.
and if i hear it, it just reminds me of you.
i don't need to question things anymore.

you say one thing and just do another, and i don't really have the time for that.
i was distracted, stressed, anxious, and tired.
for weeks.
after barely weeks.
how is that any good?

your actions reaffirm my decision.
they give me confidence in what i wanted.
they assure me of your character.

they say actions speak louder than words.
well, you're yelling now.

salad.

beans, corn, tomato, avacado.
way delicious.

having a hoo-hoo sucks.
i think too much.

nice of you to not invite me,
assholes.
nice of you to not reply to me,
assholes.
nice of you to not care,
assholes.
thank god i'm moving.

assholes.

blar da blar.

ummmmmm i hate homework that takes this long.
it's very confusing and a lot of work for not many marks.
i should definitely just go finish it.

phew.

it feels good to take charge.
now that all of that is off my chest, i can relax.
life can now just unfold.
what will happen, will.

well guess what,

i'm not 15.
if i ask you to communicate better with me, and give me the respect i deserve, you need to follow through with that.
you don't give me 12 hours notice, after i chase you down, to tell me that you're inviting yourself over.
don't just assume it's ok when you know how busy i am.
if i ask you to plan ahead and let me know when you do, i expect you to actually let me know when you do.
if you knew on wednesday you should have told me on wednesday.
not thursday evening when i phone you, and then you get mad at me.
how is that fair?
get a hotel next time, because i'm not going to feel uncomfortable in my own house.
i'll respect your rules in your house, but you better respect me in my house.
this is my house.

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